I can't get the song "Like the Angel" by Rise Against out of my head...**** is like 10 years old, but it's just so damn good!!
Oderint Dum Metuant
Its a game of homor that all players who compete accept.
Are there amateurs who cheat? Once in a while. I know a couple. But they are usually exposed and as I said, no one wants to play with them.
I'm not expecting you to like it. I'm just telling you the way it is. Having "golf referees" would ruin a great game.