I am very independent, have worked very hard for everything I have, and my daughter is NO.1
I need someone to do things with me....not for me!
It just hurts so much because I thought this guy was the one, I thought we were eye to eye on everything.....looking back now I guess I was being blind.
It's just an accumulation of things recently, the breaking straw being him saying " I should think about moving to live with him because his house is bigger, it's closer to his job and I wouldn't need to work so much(if at all)....
Seriously? Go suck an egg......
I mean, he shouldn't say "you should", but if you guys were serious, wouldn't you want to live together?
You can still move in with him and work, can you not?
Always stick with your job though. I'm glad my girlfriend wants to work and save money.
I would have loved to live with him, but at his current location, NO WAY!
He is surrounded by his family (who can be quite intrusive and uppity). Plus he is a bit of a momma's boy.
Also, I know what he is driving for....he eventually wants a stay at home wife with the kids....ain't gonna happen.
I guess I thought he would change and he thought I would change...........just sucks!
Stay-at-home mother at this day and age is awful. If he loses his job, you guys might be ****ed. It's always good to fall back on something I guess. I see your point.
Thanx Moke.....I will not let this discourage me....I am now single and on the prowl....wawrrrrr....
Good luck getting through it, but it seems like you don't need it.
Right on Rudyy....let's go a huntin' this weekend....short skirts, free drinks, and no regrets!